We all want to influence others.

Without that ability, we can’t help anyone. We won’t matter.
There are a couple interesting factors in this quest. One, we can’t say what our influence is, only others can.
So I asked this question to the Ziglar audience, “If everyone in your life had to give an honest testimony of your influence on them, good and bad, how do you feel about what they would share?”
Two, how we feel about ourselves is a root issue that greatly impact our influence.
So I posted a second question, “What actions, behaviors, and/or thoughts help, and hurt, your approval of yourself?”
Tom Ziglar and I read through many of the responses and talked about the convergence of these two important issues.

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